With the start of the Spring B term, I have been sensing a lot of exhaustion and burnout from fellow RMCAD colleagues and students. I’ve even felt it from friends and family members. I think this time of year can be a challenge for many people because winter is slowly loosening its grip as spring is just beginning to edge its way into our lives. It always feels like the last stretch of winter is dragging on forever. Transitions of any kind can heighten feelings of stress, excitement, and restlessness. Jumping so quickly from one phase to the next with little time between, as we do from spring A to Spring B at RMCAD, can create the sense that you’re moving forward with barely any fuel left in the tank. It’s also no wonder so many people catch the sniffles this time of year, as stress plays such an important role in our immune system response. That’s why, at this time of year especially, I’m reminded of the importance of taking breaks and pausing for recovery. Through rest, we are able to prepare for transitions, gather strength, and generate a greater sense of well-being. Rest comes in many different forms and can look different to everyone. Here are the 7 types of rest that can help you restore your energy and prevent burnout. They’re good to practice whenever you have the time and feel the need to take a break from the demands of daily life.
1. Physical rest.
Physical rest is often what comes to mind first when I think about needing to take a break. It can feel so relieving to come home and sink into a comfy couch or bed after a long day of work. Some ways to know if you need physical rest are if you’re feeling pain, tension, physical exhaustion, or illness. Here are a few different ways to get physical rest:
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Do yoga or stretch your body
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Cuddle with a pet or a loved one
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Get a massage
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Curl up under a (heated) blanket and drink tea
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Go swimming
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Take a hot shower or bath
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Sunbathe indoors or outdoors (if weather permits)
2. Mental rest
When your mind has been processing stimuli and solving problems all day, it can start to feel a bit tiring. If you don’t take time for mental rest it can take a toll on your ability to solve problems, communicate, or simply think clearly. Mental rest also greatly improves your mood. You might be needing to take a moment for mental rest if you’re feeling overwhelmed, confused, tired, frustrated, or agitated. Perhaps you’re having difficulty sleeping at night due to a restless mind or maybe problem-solving feels more challenging than usual. These are all signs you may need some mental rest. Try one of these 7 tips to achieve a rested mind:
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Journal about your day and your feelings
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Read or listen to an audiobook or podcast
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Listen to your favorite music
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Take a long walk in nature
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Watch a comforting video or movie
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Get your hands dirty doing your favorite hobby (repotting plants, knitting, painting, pottery, etc.)
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Take a break from technology
3. Emotional rest
Having emotions is what makes us human. Emotions connect us with others, help us make choices, develop a sense of self, and protect us. But emotions can sometimes be overwhelming, creating a feeling of fatigue. You may be in need of some emotional R&R if you’re feeling numb, insecure, overly apologetic, or angry with yourself. Perhaps you feel the need for isolation due to overwhelming and distracting feelings such as anxiety or frustration. Here are some ways to achieve emotional rest:
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Advocate for your needs. (this might mean asking for some alone time, more help around the house, or support on a project)
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Schedule an appointment with a mental health counselor/therapist
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Stop comparing yourself to others (this could mean taking a break from social media)
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Open up to a friend or family member about how you’re feeling
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Exercise
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Journal about your emotions or use an emotion log
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Use some visualization techniques and practice feeling the emotions you want to feel
4. Spiritual rest
Spirituality is unique to each individual and can mean something different to everyone. Spirituality is how I remain connected to and find meaning and abundance in the present moment. You might be needing spiritual rest if you’re feeling hopeless, defeated, depressed, or dissatisfied with life. Here are some of my favorite ways to achieve spiritual rest:
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Meditate or pray
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Do a tarot card reading or read a book about a spiritual discipline
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Practice gratitude through journaling
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Practice positive affirmations
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Connect with a community
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Talk to a therapist
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Spend time in nature
5. Sensory rest
Sometimes your senses just need a break. As humans, we constantly receive sensory stimuli which can sometimes become overwhelming and result in exhaustion, burnout, or a complete meltdown. You may be in need of sensory rest if you’re feeling overwhelmed, numb, agitated, or easily startled. Perhaps one of your senses is feeling fatigued and you’re not enjoying the things you used to because of it. Here are some ways to take a mini break from all that stimuli. Your nervous system will thank you.
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Take a break from all screens
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Book a sensory deprivation session or make one yourself by drawing a warm bath/shower with dim lighting. You can up the relaxation by adding Epsom salts or aromatherapy, using earplugs, and turning the lights completely off
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Use noise-canceling headphones or earplugs
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Meditate or take a nap. If you choose the meditation route really try to focus on your breathing
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Put on your comfiest clothes
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Take a break from processed foods and enjoy something natural and nourishing
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Drink some soothing chamomile tea
6. Social rest
When I first heard the term social rest, I thought it mean taking some time to be alone. However, I have come to learn that social rest is about fostering a sense of authentic and meaningful connection with others after feeling isolated or socially unfulfilled due to the same types of social interactions every day. Social rest has become even more critical as we progress into the digital age and almost every interaction takes place through social media or texting and can feel superficial. You might be needing social rest if you feel lonely, disconnected, or disengaged, or have the desire to isolate yourself from others. Perhaps you have been fostering online friendships and neglecting your face-to-face relationships. In any case, here are some great ways to achieve social rest:
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Call a close friend or family member and talk to them on the phone
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Go grab coffee or lunch with a friend or family member
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Go on a walk with a loved one
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Find a group of people you have something in common with and/or join a club with similar interests
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Plan a double date or invite a loved one over for dinner
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Go on a getaway with a special someone
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Go to events with people that make you feel good and practice saying no to events/situations that cause you more stress than happiness
7. Creative rest
It can be all too easy to get wrapped up in the daily grind and find at the end of the week that you had barely any time or energy to work on personal and fulfilling creative endeavors. There may be days or even weeks when you were unable to focus on creative and fulfilling projects due to a hectic and demanding schedule of events. This lifestyle, while unavoidable, can nevertheless become quite draining and leave you feeling uninspired, especially if you’re an artist. But an essential component of creativity isn’t just making the thing, it’s noticing the things around us that spark joy and create fuel for future creative ideas. Do you ever feel selfish when taking the time to do creative projects that make you happy? Perhaps you feel like your contributions aren’t valued by others. Or, maybe you spend a lot of time focusing on other people’s needs, leaving yourself little-to-no time to focus on your own fulfillment. Or maybe you find yourself constantly sabotaging your desire and effort toward joy. If so, you may be in need of some creative rest. Here are a few things to try (You can award yourself creative bonus points if you incorporate a sketchbook in any of these practices):
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Spend time in nature (go on a walk, take a hike, or sit on a balcony and observe the life around you!)
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Listen to music
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Listen to a creative podcast or watch a creative youtube video or movie that’s inspiring
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If you have extra time, take a day off and do whatever you feel like doing
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Learn! Take a creative class or watch a creative tutorial
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Try something new that excites you and maybe scares you just a little bit, like trying a new food/restaurant, or going somewhere you’ve never been before